On My Shoulders On-Demand Facilitator Training (Fatherhood)Purchasing for someone else? As you check out be sure to add their name, email, and shipping address to the "Order Instructions" box on the cart page. On My Shoulders (OMS) is a strengths based, experiential curriculum designed to give fathers from a variety of backgrounds effective tools for being strong, effective fathers. OMS is not a parenting class per se, but is an experiential learning process that emphasizes relationship skills, builds self